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我们能拥有孩子多少年?
     
时间: 2021-06-12 03:41 来源: 未知 字体显示:

  我们可以生几岁?

  3年,他去幼儿园了看着他小而结实的背部,我的心里充满了喜悦和悲伤。整天再见孩子见到你时高兴地跑过去,扔在你的怀里。告诉你:妈妈,我想念你。那一刻,抱着孩子就像抱着整个世界。

  6岁他上了小学孩子终于走进了学校的大门,这是多么令人难忘的事情,此后,孩子的生活开辟了新的篇章,但是没想到,这也是孩子离开我们的第一步。他已经习惯于与您分开一天,而且他喜欢每天上学,这是他喜欢的生活。甚至,他有时说:妈妈,这么无聊没有孩子和我一起玩。

  12岁他上初中有些甚至开始上寄宿学校,每个月或几个月回家一次,上次见。他们开始不再依赖你,甚至,他们喜欢和你战斗。你想为他们做点事,他们说:妈妈,我会自己做的。突然我觉得这句话使我们感到非常失望,孩子不再需要我们吗?

  18岁,He left you to go to college,Come back twice a year.A few days ago when I came back,The refrigerator at home can't fit,He prepared all kinds of things he likes to eat.But when I came back for a face-to-face meeting,He was busy gathering with classmates and friends.Since then,The one sentence you are most afraid of hearing is: Mom,I won't go home for dinner,Eat it yourself.

  After graduating from college,The child stayed far away to work,It is difficult to come back once a year.Finally came back,I left in a few days.What you look forward to most is your child's phone number,hope,The child said to you: Mom,I'm very good,You take care of your body.This is enough.

  The child is married,Half of the time to go home is given to your in-laws,Fewer children come back.You are used to the old couple at home,but,You most want to hear your child say to you: Mom,I've been home for Chinese New Year this year!

  When children have their own children again,You are no longer a member of their family,In their family of three (or a family of n),You are no longer included.And we have slowly got used to such days.I'm just used to when I'm free,Often flip through the album,Look at our own family of three,No matter where the child is,He will always be an irreplaceable member of our family.

  Yes,实际上, 当孩子在附近时,我们有多幸福。但是有时我们仍然会抱怨。因为他而抱怨您做出了太多牺牲。抱怨他总是在晚上醒来,让你睡个好觉抱怨他不合理的麻烦,抱怨他喜欢风骚而不长大,抱怨他的病,伤了你的心抱怨为了训练他,这花费了太多的精力和金钱。 但,如果你考虑一下十多年后,即使你想要没有机会。孩子会不断长大,在这段时间之后 他将不再有这个时期的习惯。您是否经常想念他断奶后喂养他的日子,可是你觉得好累 很累, 很累。您是否经常看过他以前吃过手的照片,以为它们很可爱但是您曾经担心会不断洗手。是他淡出幼稚的声音之后,我特别想念他的乳白色乳白色声音,但是当他以前表现得像个婴儿时, 你真没用您是否想念您的孩子上学时依依不舍的日子?但是之前 您总是想知道他什么时候可以上学。

  时间不能倒流,过去只能永远过去。有孩子在他们身边是多么的稀有和珍贵。因为这,我珍惜与孩子们度过的每一刻,让我无论遇到什么所有人都感激不尽。感谢上帝给我这么一个孩子,让我分享并见证他成长的每一刻。不管给我带来多大的困难沮丧的,甚至沮丧任何让我失去多少睡眠,时间,金钱,活力,我仍然豁达,因为,这都是上天的恩赐。

  当他在身边的每一天,我都会让他觉得幸福,也是让我们都有一个美好的回忆。我不会给他太多压力,束缚,更不会给他牵绊,阻扰,但是我会适时管教,也会做量力而行的投资,因为我有责任与义务教会他生活的本领,好让他来日自由快乐的飞翔。同时,我也会告诉他,就算所有的路都行不通时,还有一条路你可以畅行,那就是回家的路……

  讨论一下,什么学习方法,能使孩子学习成绩有所进步?

  期中考试已经结束了,孩子的分数和排名也清楚了,肯定是几家欢喜几家忧,是否可以请孩子成绩进步或成绩稳定的家长朋友,介绍一下经验,也好让我们这些孩子成绩退步和没有提高的着急家长,能得到一些启示呢?谢谢您的参与,感谢您的热心帮助。

  经验:

  1,不给孩子太大压力,只让她跟自己比。比如上次成绩多少(每科),What is the result this time,Which subjects have improved,Which ones don't work well.Sum it up by yourself,So that the child can readily accept,And can make the next study plan realistically.Always compare other children's grades with their own children,no effect,On the contrary, it disgusts the child.

  2,Help the children sum up the wrong questions together,It's best to have a wrong question book for each subject,Copy every wrong question in the book and correct it.

  3.Let the children communicate with teachers and classmates as much as they can't,Be sure to encourage children to ask and discuss.Don't swallow dates,Don't know how to pretend to understand.Dare not ask others,Worried about losing face,Afraid of others saying.This will cheat yourself.

  4.Give children confidence,Let them believe in themselves.

  5.Grasp the principles.The homework must be completed,Can't give up without doing it.Computer mobile games need to be controlled.

     
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